{"id":131,"date":"2003-10-04T23:24:04","date_gmt":"2003-10-05T02:24:04","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ericbrooks.com\/soapbox\/?p=131"},"modified":"2004-10-31T02:46:16","modified_gmt":"2004-10-31T05:46:16","slug":"give-them-flowers-while-they-can-still-smell-them","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ericbrooks.com\/soapbox\/give-them-flowers-while-they-can-still-smell-them\/","title":{"rendered":"Give them flowers (while they can still smell them)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>A couple of phrases have always stood out in my mind.  Those one-liners that people can write an entire book based on it.<\/p>\n<p>One of those lines was one that I heard a pastor say:<br \/>\n&#8220;<i>Try and give someone flowers while they can still smell them<\/i>&#8220;.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.ericbrooks.com\/soapbox\/\" target=\"_top\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" alt=\"SoApBoX\" src=\"http:\/\/www.ericbrooks.com\/images\/posts\/byline.jpg\" width=\"200\" height=\"252\" border=\"0\" align=\"right\" \/><\/a><br \/>\nWe&#8217;re always quick with a negative observation of someone.  It&#8217;s our nature. I&#8217;m as guilty as the next guy of doing it.  Usually it&#8217;s traits we see within ourselves that annoy us when we see it in others.<\/p>\n<p>Books go out of print, buildings crumble, laws and statutes are repealed, news becomes forgotten, television and radio shows are cancelled, and websites expire.<\/p>\n<p>The only real legacy we leave behind in this world are the memories kept by those whose lives we&#8217;ve touched.  <\/p>\n<p>All too often we find ourselves talking to a coffin or at a grave site telling the open wind how much they meant to us.  Stuff we meant to tell them a long time ago.<\/p>\n<p>Stuff we SHOULD have told them a long time ago.<br \/>\nI hope I&#8217;m not too late for some of you.<br \/>\nI hope you know how I feel about you.<\/p>\n<p>Life&#8217;s too short.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A couple of phrases have always stood out in my mind.  Those one-liners that people can write an entire book based on it. 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