{"id":169,"date":"2004-11-27T02:13:31","date_gmt":"2004-11-27T05:13:31","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ericbrooks.com\/soapbox\/?p=169"},"modified":"2006-03-03T12:45:38","modified_gmt":"2006-03-03T17:45:38","slug":"desire-and-giving-thanks","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ericbrooks.com\/soapbox\/desire-and-giving-thanks\/","title":{"rendered":"Desire&#8230; and giving thanks"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>While I understand Thanksgiving is primarily an American holiday&#8230; I think it&#8217;s a good thing for everyone to stop for a moment, look around at what you have and give thanks. I think anything that promotes love, and giving, and just appreciating what you have (rather than stress out over what you DON&#8217;T have) is a good thing. <\/p>\n<p>There just ain&#8217;t enough of it in the world, you know?<\/p>\n<p><strong>You know&#8230; a funny thing I learned recently.<\/strong><br \/>\nI never understood why a girl would suddenly take interest in a boy after he&#8217;s got a girlfriend; or why a man with a loving family, financially secure, and fairly successful would blow his brains out after being passed up for a promotion.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s human nature to want what we can&#8217;t have.  I wouldn&#8217;t say it&#8217;s greed as much as it is we humans can never be content.  We have to keep growing, and building, and bettering ourselves.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve let a situation eat me alive over the past seven months. A position at work that I wouldn&#8217;t have normally given any thought over&#8230; <\/p>\n<p>&#8230;except for the fact that I was told I can&#8217;t have it, and was never given a reason why.<\/p>\n<p>Then, I found myself wanting it more than anything.  I worked my ass off, did everything I could to prove I deserved it.<\/p>\n<p><strong>You can&#8217;t be king of the world if you&#8217;re a slave to the grind.<\/strong><br \/>\nI turned in my two weeks notice on Wednesday. <\/p>\n<p>I know I made the right decision.<br \/>\nFor the first time in a long time&#8230; I feel a calm serenity inside and a burden lifted off my shoulders.<\/p>\n<p>Time will tell whose loss it is.  No one is indispensible. And, quite frankly, I never look back.<\/p>\n<p>I have a family that loves me. Wonderful friends online and offline.  I have a future now.<br \/>\nI have much to be thankful for.<\/p>\n<p>And I can honestly say I&#8217;m content&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>For now.  \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;ve hit a turning point in my life&#8230; and I&#8217;ve come to realize I am one of the luckiest guys on earth.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-169","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-old-skewl"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v23.1 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>Desire... and giving thanks - SoApBoX<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/ericbrooks.com\/soapbox\/desire-and-giving-thanks\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Desire... and giving thanks - SoApBoX\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"I&#039;ve hit a turning point in my life... and I&#039;ve come to realize I am one of the luckiest guys on earth.\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:url\" content=\"https:\/\/ericbrooks.com\/soapbox\/desire-and-giving-thanks\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:site_name\" content=\"SoApBoX\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:publisher\" content=\"EricBrooksDotComWeb\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:author\" content=\"EricBrooksDotComWeb\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:published_time\" content=\"2004-11-27T05:13:31+00:00\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:modified_time\" content=\"2006-03-03T17:45:38+00:00\" \/>\n<meta name=\"author\" content=\"Eric Brooks\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:card\" content=\"summary_large_image\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:creator\" content=\"@EricBrooksCom\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:site\" content=\"@EricBrooksCom\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:label1\" content=\"Written by\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data1\" content=\"Eric Brooks\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:label2\" content=\"Est. reading time\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data2\" content=\"2 minutes\" \/>\n<script type=\"application\/ld+json\" class=\"yoast-schema-graph\">{\"@context\":\"https:\/\/schema.org\",\"@graph\":[{\"@type\":\"Article\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/ericbrooks.com\/soapbox\/desire-and-giving-thanks\/#article\",\"isPartOf\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/ericbrooks.com\/soapbox\/desire-and-giving-thanks\/\"},\"author\":{\"name\":\"Eric Brooks\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/ericbrooks.com\/soapbox\/#\/schema\/person\/8ff62df16d2105a698b2aa19323dca30\"},\"headline\":\"Desire&#8230; and giving thanks\",\"datePublished\":\"2004-11-27T05:13:31+00:00\",\"dateModified\":\"2006-03-03T17:45:38+00:00\",\"mainEntityOfPage\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/ericbrooks.com\/soapbox\/desire-and-giving-thanks\/\"},\"wordCount\":328,\"publisher\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/ericbrooks.com\/soapbox\/#\/schema\/person\/8ff62df16d2105a698b2aa19323dca30\"},\"articleSection\":[\"Old Skewl\"],\"inLanguage\":\"en-US\"},{\"@type\":\"WebPage\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/ericbrooks.com\/soapbox\/desire-and-giving-thanks\/\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/ericbrooks.com\/soapbox\/desire-and-giving-thanks\/\",\"name\":\"Desire... and giving thanks - SoApBoX\",\"isPartOf\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/ericbrooks.com\/soapbox\/#website\"},\"datePublished\":\"2004-11-27T05:13:31+00:00\",\"dateModified\":\"2006-03-03T17:45:38+00:00\",\"breadcrumb\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/ericbrooks.com\/soapbox\/desire-and-giving-thanks\/#breadcrumb\"},\"inLanguage\":\"en-US\",\"potentialAction\":[{\"@type\":\"ReadAction\",\"target\":[\"https:\/\/ericbrooks.com\/soapbox\/desire-and-giving-thanks\/\"]}]},{\"@type\":\"BreadcrumbList\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/ericbrooks.com\/soapbox\/desire-and-giving-thanks\/#breadcrumb\",\"itemListElement\":[{\"@type\":\"ListItem\",\"position\":1,\"name\":\"Home\",\"item\":\"https:\/\/ericbrooks.com\/soapbox\/\"},{\"@type\":\"ListItem\",\"position\":2,\"name\":\"Desire&#8230; and giving thanks\"}]},{\"@type\":\"WebSite\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/ericbrooks.com\/soapbox\/#website\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/ericbrooks.com\/soapbox\/\",\"name\":\"SoApBoX\",\"description\":\"Rants and Raves of Eric Brooks. 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