{"id":99,"date":"2003-04-24T23:45:12","date_gmt":"2003-04-25T02:45:12","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ericbrooks.com\/soapbox\/?p=99"},"modified":"2016-10-17T21:26:43","modified_gmt":"2016-10-18T01:26:43","slug":"whistles","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ericbrooks.com\/soapbox\/whistles\/","title":{"rendered":"*whistles*"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>So, how about them <a href=\"http:\/\/www.yankees.com\" target=\"offsite\">Yankees<\/a>?<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;re not expecting me <a href=\"http:\/\/www.tampatantrum.com\/leftovers\/003197.html\" target=\"offsite\">to<\/a> <a href=\"http:\/\/solonor.com\/archives\/001149.html\" target=\"offsite\">talk<\/a> <a href=\"http:\/\/www.astarradesigns.com\/blog\/\" target=\"offsite\" title=\"We MISS you Maria!\">about<\/a> <a href=\"http:\/\/www.assortedweirdness.com\/mt\/archive\/000278.php\" target=\"offsite\">the<\/a> <a href=\"http:\/\/www.blogshares.com\/forum\/viewforum.php?f=10&#038;sid=290a869651866282c08f6b381c43e1e2\" target=\"offsite\" title=\"yeah,  pun intended.\">shit<\/a> <a href=\"http:\/\/bentonfraser.blogspot.com\/#93207808\" target=\"offsite\">hitting<\/a>  <a href=\"http:\/\/stupidevilbastard.com\/archives\/2003\/04\/25\/blogshares_meltdown.php\" target=\"offsite\">the<\/a> <a href=\"http:\/\/www.oxymoronic.org\/blog\/archives\/004266.htm\" target=\"offsite\">fan<\/a> <a href=\"http:\/\/www.zulyzu.com\/archives\/000571.php\" target=\"offsite\">tonight<\/a>, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.compulsive.org\/mt\/archives\/001066.html\" target=\"offsite\">are<\/a> <a href=\"http:\/\/www.tenth-muse.com\/archives\/000378.php\" target=\"offsite\">you<\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/skittish.org\/gssvarchives\/001133.html\" target=\"offsite\">?<\/a><br \/>\nHey, I just made my peace.  And I gave my word I was staying out of it.<\/p>\n<hr noshade size=\"1\" \/>\n<b>On second thought&#8230; FUCK IT!<\/b> I&#8217;m hearing a lot of lies and PR damage-control at Blogshares, and I&#8217;m sick of it.<br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/www.ericbrooks.com\/whuzzup\/archives\/bs.htm\" target=\"offsite\">Here is a copy of the page where my friends and I are CRUCIFIED at Blogshares.<\/a> (I suspected my comment was going to be deleted, so I saved the page.)  Maria was run off the web, because of me.  She defended a friend, and he sicced trolls on all of us.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.blogshares.com\/#20030425020915\" target=\"offsite\">Sayed has no control over over the trolls???<\/a> <b>BULLSHIT!<\/b><br \/>\nHe has my name in big-ass letters, my URL on it and singles out every one commenting on my site as &#8220;nazis&#8221; and &#8220;doting supporters&#8221;.  One of them was Maria, who didn&#8217;t agree with my remark, but said my frustration with the game &#8220;echoed her sentiment too&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>The very first response was one of his asshole friends suggesting &#8220;<a href=\"http:\/\/ericbrooks.com\/soapbox\/the-reviews-are-in\/\" target=\"offsite\">Perhaps blogs that link to him should suffer horrendous losses too<\/a>.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><b>HEL-LOOOOO???????<\/b><br \/>\n<!--more--><br \/>\nThis forum thread went on to two pages, several friends joined Kat in asking to be delisted over this bullshit&#8230; including Maria.  They had to leave their URL (on top of a beating from all the commenters) and they were ALL HIT BY TROLLS ON THEIR SITE IMMEDIATELY.<\/p>\n<p>Yes I apologized to Sayed for calling him what  did in the <a href=\"http:\/\/www.ericbrooks.com\/whuzzup\/archives\/2003_04.php#000813\" target=\"onsite\">post below<\/a>, and I STILL mean every word of it.  Why didn&#8217;t I apologize sooner? <a href=\"http:\/\/ericbrooks.com\/soapbox\/the-reviews-are-in\/\" target=\"offsite\">exhibit B:<\/a> &#8220;People aren&#8217;t dropping out of blogshares to defend what I said (even I admit it was shitty, and I would have apologized had he not posted this slanderous garbage.) &#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I admit right then and there&#8230;what I said was WRONG!  And I was even ready to apologize that day.<\/p>\n<p>Yet we were all crucified for the next two weeks, especially Maria.  He used a widely-read forum to slap me down and single me out because I made a remark that hurt him and he wanted to make an example out of anyone that crosses him.  He disabled the posting after so many people protested.  He&#8217;d rather shut them up than admit he might have gone a &#8220;little&#8221; overboard.<\/p>\n<p>Why can&#8217;t he just do the right thing, and simply take responsibility for creating a situation where anyone opposing him was going to be left wide open for attacks on their sites??? He riles up a mob, and then demands all their URLs are posted for him to delist&#8230; then they go attack.  What was he expecting? <\/p>\n<p>I said something stupid and regrettable, he sicced a mob on everyone here. Two wrongs don&#8217;t make a right, I know this&#8230;. but at least I took RESPONSIBILITY for my part in this mess.  Why can&#8217;t he? Instead of playing martyr on his page and pretend he doesn&#8217;t understand why everyone is mad at him for the troll attacks.  It&#8217;s takes two, folks.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;<a href=\"http:\/\/www.blogshares.com\/#20030425020915\" target=\"offsite\">We&#8217;ve both publicly apologised and I&#8217;ve accepted his apology and he&#8217;s accepted mine. <\/a>&#8221; &#8211; WHAT????  WHERE WAS MY APOLOGY??? This is the second time I had apologized via email, 30 freakin times on the web.  It took three emails today (the first one was unbelievably hostile &#038; arrogant).  Never an apology for this.  Never an apology to anyone of my friends for being called a &#8220;nazi&#8221;, or a &#8220;doting supporter&#8221; (unless you count &#8220;I realize I shouldn&#8217;t have said what I said, so I take it back&#8221;&#8230; I had to FUCKING GROVEL today in the hopes he&#8217;d call off trolls and leave Maria alone.)<\/p>\n<p>Maria has stood up for me through thick and thin.  Is one of the most wonderful people I have ever met&#8230; and this is the price she paid for being friends with a loudmouth like me.  Keeping my silence for the sake of peace would be stabbing her in the back.<\/p>\n<p>Torture me for having a big mouth.  I don&#8217;t care. I deserved it.<br \/>\nShe didn&#8217;t deserve this.  She really didn&#8217;t.<br \/>\nHow can anyone support this kind of abuse?  Tell me.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Finally!  The cavalry arrives in the Bloghares drama.  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